feat: Move cluster services to wild-directory as unified packages

Convert all 15 cluster services from embedded API format to
wild-directory packages using the unified manifest format:
- metallb, traefik, cert-manager, longhorn, snapshot-controller
- nfs, smtp, coredns, node-feature-discovery, nvidia-device-plugin
- externaldns, docker-registry, headlamp, crowdsec, utils

Changes:
- wild-manifest.yaml → manifest.yaml with is, defaultConfig, requires
- Eliminated configReferences and serviceConfig fields
- Flattened kustomize.template/ to package root
- Template vars use flat defaultConfig keys
- install.sh paths updated for apps/ layout
- Updated 9 app manifests: cloud.smtp.* → apps.smtp.* with requires
- Removed dead install: true field from 6 app manifests

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

docker-registry/kustomization.yaml

@@ -0,0 +1,14 @@
+apiVersion: kustomize.config.k8s.io/v1beta1
+kind: Kustomization
+namespace: docker-registry
+labels:
+  - includeSelectors: true
+    pairs:
+      app: docker-registry
+      managedBy: wild-cloud
+resources:
+  - deployment.yaml
+  - ingress.yaml
+  - service.yaml
+  - namespace.yaml
+  - pvc.yaml