feat: Move cluster services to wild-directory as unified packages

Convert all 15 cluster services from embedded API format to
wild-directory packages using the unified manifest format:
- metallb, traefik, cert-manager, longhorn, snapshot-controller
- nfs, smtp, coredns, node-feature-discovery, nvidia-device-plugin
- externaldns, docker-registry, headlamp, crowdsec, utils

Changes:
- wild-manifest.yaml → manifest.yaml with is, defaultConfig, requires
- Eliminated configReferences and serviceConfig fields
- Flattened kustomize.template/ to package root
- Template vars use flat defaultConfig keys
- install.sh paths updated for apps/ layout
- Updated 9 app manifests: cloud.smtp.* → apps.smtp.* with requires
- Removed dead install: true field from 6 app manifests

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

externaldns/externaldns-rbac.yaml

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+---
+apiVersion: v1
+kind: ServiceAccount
+metadata:
+  name: external-dns
+  namespace: externaldns
+---
+apiVersion: rbac.authorization.k8s.io/v1
+kind: ClusterRole
+metadata:
+  name: external-dns
+rules:
+  - apiGroups: [""]
+    resources: ["services", "endpoints", "pods"]
+    verbs: ["get", "watch", "list"]
+  - apiGroups: ["extensions", "networking.k8s.io"]
+    resources: ["ingresses"]
+    verbs: ["get", "watch", "list"]
+  - apiGroups: [""]
+    resources: ["nodes"]
+    verbs: ["list"]
+---
+apiVersion: rbac.authorization.k8s.io/v1
+kind: ClusterRoleBinding
+metadata:
+  name: external-dns-viewer
+roleRef:
+  apiGroup: rbac.authorization.k8s.io
+  kind: ClusterRole
+  name: external-dns
+subjects:
+  - kind: ServiceAccount
+    name: external-dns
+    namespace: externaldns