feat: Move cluster services to wild-directory as unified packages

Convert all 15 cluster services from embedded API format to
wild-directory packages using the unified manifest format:
- metallb, traefik, cert-manager, longhorn, snapshot-controller
- nfs, smtp, coredns, node-feature-discovery, nvidia-device-plugin
- externaldns, docker-registry, headlamp, crowdsec, utils

Changes:
- wild-manifest.yaml → manifest.yaml with is, defaultConfig, requires
- Eliminated configReferences and serviceConfig fields
- Flattened kustomize.template/ to package root
- Template vars use flat defaultConfig keys
- install.sh paths updated for apps/ layout
- Updated 9 app manifests: cloud.smtp.* → apps.smtp.* with requires
- Removed dead install: true field from 6 app manifests

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

longhorn/ingress.yaml

@@ -0,0 +1,21 @@
+apiVersion: networking.k8s.io/v1
+kind: Ingress
+metadata:
+  name: longhorn-ingress
+  namespace: longhorn-system
+spec:
+  rules:
+    - host: "longhorn.{{ .internalDomain }}"
+      http:
+        paths:
+          - path: /
+            pathType: Prefix
+            backend:
+              service:
+                name: longhorn-frontend
+                port:
+                  number: 80
+  tls:
+    - secretName: wildcard-internal-wild-cloud-tls
+      hosts:
+        - "longhorn.{{ .internalDomain }}"