feat: Move cluster services to wild-directory as unified packages

Convert all 15 cluster services from embedded API format to
wild-directory packages using the unified manifest format:
- metallb, traefik, cert-manager, longhorn, snapshot-controller
- nfs, smtp, coredns, node-feature-discovery, nvidia-device-plugin
- externaldns, docker-registry, headlamp, crowdsec, utils

Changes:
- wild-manifest.yaml → manifest.yaml with is, defaultConfig, requires
- Eliminated configReferences and serviceConfig fields
- Flattened kustomize.template/ to package root
- Template vars use flat defaultConfig keys
- install.sh paths updated for apps/ layout
- Updated 9 app manifests: cloud.smtp.* → apps.smtp.* with requires
- Removed dead install: true field from 6 app manifests

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

traefik/ingressroute.yaml

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+---
+# Source: traefik/templates/ingressroute.yaml
+apiVersion: traefik.io/v1alpha1
+kind: IngressRoute
+metadata:
+  name: traefik-dashboard
+  namespace: traefik
+  labels:
+    app.kubernetes.io/name: traefik
+    app.kubernetes.io/instance: traefik-traefik
+    helm.sh/chart: traefik-36.1.0
+    app.kubernetes.io/managed-by: Helm
+spec:
+  entryPoints:
+  - web
+  routes:
+  - match: Host(`dashboard.localhost`)
+    kind: Rule
+    services:
+      - kind: TraefikService
+        name: api@internal