feat: CLI consistency pass — unified args, verbs, and status

#1 Positional dest unified to `name` across info + dev verbs (was `project`).
#2 install/uninstall help now states the activate semantics (tool→PATH,
   service/job→systemd, frontend→served) rather than 'to PATH'.
#4 `service status` (a plural op) moved to `services status`; the singular
   `service` group is enable/disable only.
#5 `list --behavior` now filters the program *catalog* by its real behavior
   field. behavior (what a program is) and service/job (how it's deployed) are
   separate axes: `list` shows a Programs catalog plus Services/Jobs deployment
   views; a behavior filter scopes the catalog only.
#6 `list` uses lifecycle.is_active uniformly for the status dot (tool on PATH /
   service running / job timer / static frontend served) instead of registry
   presence.
#7 New `castle restart <name>` — restart a service (unit) or job (timer).
#8 New `castle status` — unified services + jobs + programs activation view.
#9 New `castle format [name]` dev verb (ruff format / pnpm format); wired into
   stacks DEV_ACTIONS + handlers.
#10 New `castle up` — deploy + start everything in one shot.

Docs: CLAUDE.md command reference refreshed. Tests updated to the two-axis
list model (+ a daemon-behavior program fixture). core 92 · cli 24 · api 52
green; ruff clean.

cli/tests/conftest.py

@@ -20,6 +20,10 @@ def castle_root(tmp_path: Path) -> Generator[Path, None, None]:
                 "description": "Test tool",
                 "behavior": "tool",
             },
+            "test-daemon": {
+                "description": "Test daemon program",
+                "behavior": "daemon",
+            },
         },
         "services": {
             "test-svc": {