feat: CLI consistency pass — unified args, verbs, and status

#1 Positional dest unified to `name` across info + dev verbs (was `project`).
#2 install/uninstall help now states the activate semantics (tool→PATH,
   service/job→systemd, frontend→served) rather than 'to PATH'.
#4 `service status` (a plural op) moved to `services status`; the singular
   `service` group is enable/disable only.
#5 `list --behavior` now filters the program *catalog* by its real behavior
   field. behavior (what a program is) and service/job (how it's deployed) are
   separate axes: `list` shows a Programs catalog plus Services/Jobs deployment
   views; a behavior filter scopes the catalog only.
#6 `list` uses lifecycle.is_active uniformly for the status dot (tool on PATH /
   service running / job timer / static frontend served) instead of registry
   presence.
#7 New `castle restart <name>` — restart a service (unit) or job (timer).
#8 New `castle status` — unified services + jobs + programs activation view.
#9 New `castle format [name]` dev verb (ruff format / pnpm format); wired into
   stacks DEV_ACTIONS + handlers.
#10 New `castle up` — deploy + start everything in one shot.

Docs: CLAUDE.md command reference refreshed. Tests updated to the two-axis
list model (+ a daemon-behavior program fixture). core 92 · cli 24 · api 52
green; ruff clean.

cli/tests/test_list.py

@@ -28,7 +28,7 @@ class TestListCommand:
         assert "test-tool" in captured.out
 
     def test_list_filter_daemon(self, castle_root: Path, capsys: object) -> None:
-        """List filtered to daemons."""
+        """--behavior filters the program catalog by its real behavior field."""
         with patch("castle_cli.commands.list_cmd.load_config") as mock_load:
             from castle_cli.config import load_config
 
@@ -38,8 +38,10 @@ class TestListCommand:
 
         assert result == 0
         captured = capsys.readouterr()  # type: ignore[attr-defined]
-        assert "test-svc" in captured.out
+        assert "test-daemon" in captured.out
         assert "test-tool" not in captured.out
+        # Services/jobs are deployment views, not behaviors — hidden under a filter.
+        assert "test-svc" not in captured.out
 
     def test_list_filter_tool(self, castle_root: Path, capsys: object) -> None:
         """List filtered to tools."""
@@ -55,22 +57,24 @@ class TestListCommand:
         assert "test-tool" in captured.out
         assert "test-svc" not in captured.out
 
-    def test_list_filter_job(self, castle_root: Path, capsys: object) -> None:
-        """List filtered to jobs (shown under tool behavior)."""
+    def test_list_jobs_are_deployments(self, castle_root: Path, capsys: object) -> None:
+        """Jobs are a deployment view: shown unfiltered, hidden under a behavior filter."""
         with patch("castle_cli.commands.list_cmd.load_config") as mock_load:
             from castle_cli.config import load_config
 
             mock_load.return_value = load_config(castle_root)
-            args = Namespace(behavior="tool", stack=None, json=False)
-            result = run_list(args)
-
-        assert result == 0
-        captured = capsys.readouterr()  # type: ignore[attr-defined]
-        assert "test-job" in captured.out
-        assert "test-svc" not in captured.out
+            # Unfiltered: the job appears.
+            run_list(Namespace(behavior=None, stack=None, json=False))
+            assert "test-job" in capsys.readouterr().out  # type: ignore[attr-defined]
+            # Behavior filter targets the catalog, so jobs drop out.
+            run_list(Namespace(behavior="tool", stack=None, json=False))
+            out = capsys.readouterr().out  # type: ignore[attr-defined]
+            assert "test-job" not in out
+            assert "test-svc" not in out
+            assert "test-tool" in out
 
     def test_list_json(self, castle_root: Path, capsys: object) -> None:
-        """List output as JSON."""
+        """JSON output tags each entry with its kind; behavior lives on programs."""
         with patch("castle_cli.commands.list_cmd.load_config") as mock_load:
             from castle_cli.config import load_config
 
@@ -85,4 +89,7 @@ class TestListCommand:
         assert "test-svc" in names
         assert "test-tool" in names
         svc = next(p for p in data if p["name"] == "test-svc")
-        assert svc["behavior"] == "daemon"
+        assert svc["kind"] == "service"
+        tool = next(p for p in data if p["name"] == "test-tool")
+        assert tool["kind"] == "program"
+        assert tool["behavior"] == "tool"